Embrace the Awkward

Teens like to talk about, well, everything with their peers. Sports, trends, clothes, cars, music and celebrities. No subject is off limits; no topic is taboo.
Alcohol is no different. It’s a subject that teens will take about, whether you realize of not. Your teen’s friends (or your teen) may have incorrect ideas about using alcohol while underage. Find out what you’re teen’s been told and what they believe.
Although you can’t know exactly what conversations have been had, you can try to gather as much information as possible. Don’t be afraid to ask direct questions, such as “Do any of your friends drink alcohol? Do your friends’ parents provide then with alcohol at home?”
Parenting is uncomfortable sometimes. Even awkward. But lean into it, and have the tough talks! Your teen has info about drinking from their friends. Now it’s time for them to hear from you. Share the risks and consequences of using alcohol while underage. Consider making a chart to compare the facts with what your teen has heard. Check out the example on the right to get you started.
Talking to Your Kids
Starting the Discussion About Drug and Alcohol Use with Your Kids
If you aren’t sure what your children would say about underage drinking, then it’s time to talk to them about it. Don’t let silence become approval. Get those conversations going!
WHAT I BELIEVE
Alcohol can damage my body as I grow.
I think I could still make good decisions event if I drink alcohol.
WHAT MY FRIENDS SAY
Alcohol is fine if you just drink a little, no matter how you are.
I can drink some alcohol and be fine.
FACTS
Underage alcohol use affects memory and brain function.
Underage drinking is associated with risk-taking since alcohol impairs judgement.